Your recent Christmases sound marvelous, including the one coming up! As a Jew, my favorite thing about Christmas are songs (written by Jews 😉), watching movies, either at home or theaters & (of course) Chinese food!
But in all seriousness, the only person you should ever please around the holidays is you. Stressing is for suckers! Planning, meditation & wine were invented just for these occasions. And it looks like your Christmas is going to be beautiful & fantastic! So merry everything & happy whatever!